For his eighth birthday, we gave Ben a choice: a xbox one s or a birthday party. I was really pulling for the xbox just because I didn't want to deal with planning a party, and the xbox would come out financially ahead of a party. Ben took the bait and asked for the xbox! We let him have one friend come over on his birthday when he opened his presents and then play on the xbox. It worked out very well. Needless to say, Ben was up at 6 am the next two days to play on the xbox...
Cameryn and Avery came over to sell girl scout cookies, so it ended up being a little bit of a mini birthday party. We kept with the Pokemon ball cake theme and had a regular ol' plain Pokemon ball cake on his actual birthday.